think and get sex
Before we get into the nitty-gritty, we first need to learn some basics about your subconscious mind, as it is at the heart of the matter… Your nervous system consists of two parts, a subconscious part and a conscious part. The conscious part is active when you do something while you are thinking about what you are doing, such as tying your shoes, writing, hugging someone, etc. All these actions happen when you are thinking. Subconscious actions occur when you are not thinking, such as your heartbeat, your breathing, etc.
Let us now illustrate the difference between the conscious and the subconscious mind and how they interact… First you begin to learn to drive a car. you are clumsy Everything you are doing is extremely conscious and robotic, step on the gas, check speed, watch the lanes not to weave, etc. Now, when you’re driving, you’re simultaneously putting on your makeup, talking on your cell phone, eating breakfast, etc. You don’t even think about it. You do it all unconsciously.
There is such a thing as ‘ignorant intelligence’. A salesperson starts a new job and beats everyone else the first week he’s there because he doesn’t know the average rates. Similarly, he is often given “quotas” by other people on what he can or cannot do or can/cannot have. He can’t pick up potential sexual partners (PSPs) in nightclubs; they will not approach you, you will not be able to find a partner, etc. If you believe them, these things register in your subconscious as facts and you will live up to their expectations. You will not be able to answer or have a conversation with your PSP.
So how do you get a copious amount of sex? Go back to when you were a child. Your parents told you not to do certain things but you kept doing them. You weren’t afraid to socialize or try new things. You had unlimited energy and would do what you thought was right. You are now socialized to obey rules, as your parents probably told you, “no means no.” This fear of “no” has crept into your subconscious. It prevents you from knowing your PSP.
If instead you filter what ‘they’ say and practice intelligent ignorance, doing your best, feeding your subconscious with positive thoughts, you will become ‘intelligent ignorant’. You will be ignorant of what others say, and you will be passing everyone’s quotas or specifications on you. You will be able to have relationships, whether sexual, mental or spiritual, with the opposite sex. If you don’t ignore what they say, you will feed these negative thoughts into your subconscious and ‘foolishly’ live up to their expectations.
Whenever you work on a problem, such as a job or a personal problem, you can consciously, clumsily, and robotically work on it yourself. Another much easier way to do this is to work using your subconscious. Ask for answers from infinite intelligence, your subconscious, or that silent voice inside your head. Once you activate your subconscious, or that “silent voice,” you evoke infinite intelligence that will lead you to your goal: getting laid. Then, and only then, will a real solution come, if not, you will continue to miss your PSP.
Follow the little voice in your head. It is a clear voice that will make your dreams come true through a series of “lucky chances”. Although you will know that these coincidences were the power of your subconscious mind, which you activated by the power of your thoughts. You may be facing fear. If you recite Ralph Waldo Emerson’s famous quote over and over again, especially when you feel fear: “Do what you fear and the death of fear is certain.”
Getting to the heart of the matter… Your subconscious is sometimes activated by deep thoughts and visualizations. However, sometimes it is activated by lack of thought, work and/or meditation. You should try all three, one will be better than all the others for you. However, understand that all three work in harmony with each other.
As you think or visualize certain ideas come to your subconscious. Throughout the day, those certain ideas reappear and the subconscious amplifies them as it works. During quiet time, perhaps having lunch alone, more ideas come to mind. Visualization is important because it gives you that extra edge to manifest your goals, in this case, getting laid.
Visualize with imaginary or real PSP: what you are going to say, how you are going to say it. Above all, emotionalize what you are going to do, how you are going to feel. This is extremely important for the subconscious as the subconscious is impressed by feelings. Imagine yourself in different settings, i.e. bars, libraries, etc. Say out loud what you would normally say and with enthusiasm, “hi, how are you?”
Be strong and bold when you say it, say it while visualizing that the person is right next to you. Say it with feeling, say it many times, visualize and soon you will be able to do it with real people by instinct. Visualizing emotions includes visualizing your facial expressions, smiling, laughing, nodding, leaning forward, etc. You must be smiling for an extended period of time during your visualization because that is what will lead you to the opposite sex as if by magic. A good smile from the opposite sex, especially one that interests you, is an aphrodisiac. If you don’t believe me, take a look at the people you care about, see them smile, I guarantee your hormones will level up.
Think about what you want, who you want to be with, even if you don’t know if that person exists yet. Write a physical/spiritual/mental description. Have a positive attitude and show confidence (smiling is a good way to show it) to the outside world. If you believe enough to impress your subconscious, then it will. However, you must follow their instructions.
The best time to visualize is when you are about to go to sleep or early in the morning. That’s because you’re not fully conscious, you’re mostly working on a subconscious level. Only your internal organs work due to the subconscious, not the conscious mind. Therefore, it is easier for you to record thoughts in your subconscious.
As you visualize, at night or early in the day, you’ll be surprised that great thoughts come out of nowhere about increasing your love life. That’s when you know you’ve impressed your subconscious. Keep working hard and you will get what you want. You will reach your goal, if you don’t give up and if you believe.
Visualization will help bring you more PSP; from there, you may need to gain the necessary experience to capitalize on it. This means that you can find a PSP that you want. You may screw it up the first few times, until you gain the experience necessary to be able to capitalize on the opportunity. For example, you can miss the signal to kiss your PSP, you can miss the signal that he/she is completely into you. Being able to read the signs may require reading the books, however, it requires something money can’t buy: experience. Sure, the first few times won’t go very well. However, anything worth doing is worth doing wrong in the beginning.
Sometimes you may need to reprogram your subconscious. You may have programmed your subconscious to think that there is no way for you to find a relationship due to your years of bad experiences. If you have these thoughts, surely your subconscious mind will send signals to your conscious mind to sabotage the relationship.
Reprogram your subconscious mind if it is programmed to fail visualizing and sometimes doing the opposite of what it would normally do. If you feel like leaving someone, even before you meet them, try talking to a friend first and getting their opinion. Unless they’ve done something terribly wrong, you shouldn’t get rid of them… Otherwise, you’ll be following a pattern of continuing to write off or sabotage potential relationships, or even ongoing relationships. This faulty programming is often used by the subconscious, so the conscious part can say, “I can’t find anyone, all men/women are idiots.” This faulty thought pattern is especially true for someone who has been hurt in the past.
Well, now you know better. Your subconscious mind is the most powerful part of your entire body, as it is the part that controls all other parts. Controlling it to work in your favor is not something you should leave to chance. Always think positive, you can have a relationship, you can find your soulmate and you can get married. If you record these thoughts in your subconscious, eventually you will do it: you will live all your desires.