Tease and Deny Tips: 3 Ways to Drive Your Man Crazy

Tease and deny is undoubtedly an essential ingredient to any serious AND satisfying male chastity lifestyle. But what is it…

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And why is it so important?

To answer this, it is important that we understand some essential principles of male chastity; Fundamentally, we need to know what it is and what it is not. What it isn’t, at least for most men, is the fantasy of simply being locked up in a male chastity device and ignored.

That’s what some men want, sure, but most don’t. And this is good news for their wives and girlfriends who at first glance think that their man is asking for celibacy instead of chastity.

So now that we understand this, maybe we can begin to see what tease and denial is all about: bringing your man to the very brink of orgasm…and then outright refusing to let him cross that all-important line. See, male chastity is about having MORE sexual contact, not less.

Now, many women feel a sudden rush of fear and apprehension when they imagine dong this, because most of us have had the experience at one point or another in our lives of being referred to as ‘prick tease’. But understand, this is NOT the same. This is something your man wants, and he really means it (believe it or not, many, many men have had this fantasy for most of their adult lives).

The other concern is, “if he’s being denied…how do I get mine?”

Well, that’s easy too. And here are three ways to treat your man with some serious teasing and denial while she’s completely satisfied:

1. Make him treat you to long slow oral sex. Yes, obvious to most of us, but to many men and women it’s new (surprising, I know). The problem is usually technical: men don’t have any! They just lick like dogs… and it’s BORING. So instead, write the lyrics to your favorite song with your tongue while you pleasure it. I guarantee that you will drive her crazy with pleasure.
2. Lock him in a chastity device and use a belt or a suitable holster (not a condom, I mean a penis-like extension that fits over his real one) and have him make love to you. He won’t feel a thing, but he’ll be ready to explode when he sees what an amazing time he’s giving you.
3. Unlock him and use his penis as a vibrator but without letting him enter you. You’ll have to be careful with this one so you don’t let it inside you or orgasm by accident, but I can tell you from experience that this ROCKS. My husband, John, is going through a full year of orgasm denial, and he uses it that way frequently. I love hearing him moan and whine and beg for him to come (and he really does).

So there you are. Any fears you have about male chastity being dull and boring are really unfounded.

If you’re serious about finding out the secrets of strict teasing and denial, without the hype and bullshit you’re tired of reading on blogs and forums, then it makes sense to get the real truth from a genuine couple living this lifestyle. 24/7, right?