How do men show that they love you without words? Signs that your guy adores you
There are certain qualities that we all wish men had. No, it’s not an inner need that drives you to clean the house, although that would be a dream come true, right? For most women, they long for a man who is expressive with his emotions. Wouldn’t it be amazing if your man was constantly telling you how much he loves you and how there is no one else in the world that comes close to you? It’s the stuff fairy tales and Hollywood chick flicks are made of. Most men are reserved and tend to express themselves by saying a meek, “me too” in response to us pouring out our hearts. Obviously, it’s disappointing and somewhat disheartening to not have that extra validation you’re looking for. Instead of concentrating on your words, it may be worth starting to observe your actions more. Men often show their love without words and once you know how to recognize how they do it, you will feel completely adored and appreciated by your guy.
You know how your partner always wants to help you by offering his advice and opinion? Sure, it can be a bit frustrating when he tells you the correct way to cook pasta if he’s never turned on the stove, but it’s actually a sign that he’s head over heels for you. Men love to help the women they love. They want to be that knight in shining armor that we all dream of. He wants to come to your rescue, even if it’s just to get something heavy off a high shelf in the bedroom. If your man is constantly offering his help, even when you haven’t asked for it, take it as a good sign of where his heart is.
Men also show their love without words by their need to be physically close to you. All romantic relationships obviously have a physical aspect, which is one of the reasons why we all long for a strong connection with a man. However, there is more than that. Does your guy hold your hand when you two walk down the street? Or have you noticed that he reaches over to rub your shoulders if you’re talking about something more stressful that happened at work? These are signs of his need to be close to you and comfort you. A man in love wants to help his woman feel better in every way she can. He wants her to feel loved and protected. Those little physical gestures mean so much more than just tokens of affection. They really should be seen as windows into his heart.
Jealousy may seem like a negative emotion, but in the case of trying to figure out your man’s feelings, it can be a great understanding tool. We all have a jealous streak and it seems to be aroused when we feel there is a threat to our happiness. If you work with a man who is attractive or have a close friend and your guy has a problem with that, don’t automatically assume it’s because he lacks self-confidence. It is possible that he is simply threatened by the fact that another man is in your life. Obviously, jealousy mixed with anger isn’t something you want to dive into, but if your man seems more attentive after you’ve been with another man, take that as a sign that he’s feeling territorial and wants you all to himself.
His eyes are where you need to focus your attention the next time you see him. Pay close attention to how much he looks at you. If you feel like you’re emotionally connected, be prepared to feel his gaze on you the entire time you’re together. A man in love cannot take his eyes off the woman he loves. It’s like he needs to breathe her in visually. He wants to capture everything about you so that he can easily remember everything when the two of you are not together.
If you take a close look at how your man acts, you will soon discover many hidden clues as to what he is feeling. He may not be comfortable sharing his emotions verbally, but his actions will really tell you how deeply he wants and desires you. Just look at it as a journey towards discovering your man’s heart.