How do I make my ex feel rejected after he rejected me? This will make it happen for you

Dealing with a breakup can be difficult. Dealing with the rejection that comes with it is even more difficult. This is probably because the ego takes a huge hit when a person is rejected making them feel worthless and incomplete.

Sometimes letting go of rejection and moving on in life is the best solution. But if you feel like the only way to move on is to get even, read on for ways to make your ex feel rejected.

Get on with your life! Be the rock in the storm: The first surprise for your ex will be if you continue with your life as if nothing had happened. The moment you project the image that you are moving on with your life despite the breakup, it will make your ex feel insecure and rejected.

Doing so will make your ex feel that he/she was an inconsequential part of your life and that it is a loss for him/her to have rejected you.

Look happy or pretend: Face it. Your ex expects you to be miserable after he broke up with you. But when he sees that you’re really happy after the breakup, your ex will start to wonder if he was keeping you from being happy while you were together.

This will also play on your guilt; One, for rejecting you and two, for feeling bad about your happiness. Now that you seem so happy, he will want to be with you, but he will know that there is no going back.

Ignore your ex! We all chase what we can’t have: Ignore your ex if you see him in public. It’s polite to just acknowledge them, but if you really want them to squirm, go through him/her.

Wait until your ex comes to talk to you and if he/she does, then be very impersonal and polite by harboring being cold. There couldn’t be a better way to make your ex feel the rejection she has felt from you.

Use jealousy! Dirty but always effective: Jealousy can be a very powerful tool when used with caution. If you have to be seen with someone else, you have to make it look like a genuine date and not one of those fake things you do to make your ex jealous.

It’s also healthier for you to date someone you like to get the best of both worlds…you can have fun and also make your ex feel rejected.

During the date, your ex and your date should be able to see your lighter, more relaxed side…one that is fun and entertaining. This could be the last blow to your ex’s ego for rejecting you.